@renevanbelzen Awww so sorry to hear that 😿 . Abyssinian's are so elegant, she must be dearly missed.

Merry didn't always do this, in fact when he was a kitten he was quite shy, he'd come over for pats, but if you get too close he'd run off. Close-but–not-too-close! But over the years he's mellowed and become more demanding (and affectionate)! Of course when he dozes off on my shoulder, I basically can't do anything else because one arm needs to cradle him, for about 15 minutes…